A tribute to the awesomest girl i know!!

What makes your day? Talking to a loved one? Getting complemented by a stranger?scoring good in a class test?or having fun time with friends?

Well, all of the above do certainly make me happy but i cannot say they make my day! What makes my day is talking to my best friend Tanmaya!
We live in different geographical coordinates. But that doesn't make a difference. does it?I still can call her at 12 and tell her how horrible my maths teacher is and tell her how much I miss her.
I can call her and ask her what to do with the friend who stabbed me on the back and she will give the best advice possible.
I don't have to tell her how sad I am because she can sense it from my voice.
I can make fun of her 'dracula teeth' and she can make fun of my height but we burst out into peals of laughter after that!
I don't wake up everyday and tell her that she is my best friend and how much she means to me because she already knows it :)
Sometimes i sit in the class and remember the fun we had together(facial, yas u :p) and i am punished by my chemistry teacher!
I miss every dam thing about her. Her hair, her smile, her society and the way i sprang into her house and helped myself with her lunch box :D
I love you a lot tanmaya! and life seems dull without you :(

Chaning times and friendships

"What hurts the most is when you were once so close and now have nothing to say.

But watch each other walk away."

I sit beside the sea as my gaze rests upon the sun which spreads it arms on the sea and colors the faded sky. My ears mute to the beautiful scene in front of me. I toss away my hair as they fall on my face and obstruct the view. Before I knew it, I was lost in though and I was taken back to the visual when I and my three other friends would come here not long back.

I suck my breath as I narrate this incident and my heart skips a beat.

I was pretty different from what I am now. Others opinions didn’t really bother me. I wasn’t affected by anyone’s love, like or dislike. Gossiping was the last thing on my list. Every evening I would go out with my three friends. We would laugh; play pranks on people and crack jokes. We were inseparable

We came to the sea side every evening and watch the waves as they hit the shore with great intensity. The month of August and its rains couldn’t disrupt our meetings. We made excuses, lied to our parents and bunked our tuitions. It was just because we enjoyed each other’s company. There was no formality.

A gentle breeze stirred me awake from this whirlwind of thoughts that had engulfed me completely. It was then I realized that things have drastically changed now. And no matter how much I try, that time can never be brought back.

I sit and wonder what happened to that friendship? Is it still imprinted in our minds or did it get perished in the shore of time?

It's never too late

There is always, at any point of time one person in our life on whom we are completely dependent. Our actions, thoughts and movements are guided by them. We give away ourselves completely.

But what happens when the person doesn't return the love, the care the attention?

We cry, taunt, persuade, cajole, force them to think in our direction..then we walk away.

What i believe is, if the person really likes you, they will make an effort to be in your life. They will talk to you, call you, text you.If they don't do so..It's better to walk away.
One day or the other, the person WILL realize how important you are and  return. If they don't good for you :)

Till then find a person who truly likes you and will return your attention.
Send flowers, hug, talk and text such awesome people in your life~

Believe me, it's never too late to do so :)

I'm the type of girl

I'm The
T
Y
P
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of girl

that can listen to music whole night that inspires her.

Who can cry whole night when things don't turn out her way

who is deeply affected by someone's love, like or dislike

who cries while watching operas and emotional movies

But at the same time she is strong


she has the power to let her love go


she has control over her emotions


she knows when and how to make decisions


she will be no one, but herself

Yes, I have made mistakes in life. I have let many people down. I have made them cry and also at times, myself cried. I've taken advantage of people and let them take advantage of me. But what matters most it that i have LEARNT from my mistakes. 

I have seen things the way they were but that never stopped me from smiling. 
I'm strong, free-spirited and determined.
I'm the master of my destiny.

I believe in living life to the fullest, smiling till your cheeks hurt, having friends who love you, dancing in the rain. I believe in miracles.

In the end we only regret chances we didn't take and people we didn't talk to. The rest really doesn't matter! Love life, live life is what i believe it

Note to myself..

Certain promises have held me still in the flood of time which could sweep me away. So here i present the maxims i live by and swear to!

1.There is no single person you can completely trust. At one point of time or the other, your trust is going to be broken. And that is the time it will hurt the most. So sometimes, its better to keep certain things to yourself.

2.Nobody can understand you as well as you can understand yourself. Let it be your spouse, soul mate, mom, sister or even your best friend. Yes, they might understand to a large extent.

3.People only learn when they themselves live the lesson. One learns through their own experience. So its useless to make someone understand what it was like.

4.There is going to be a point in your life, when the person you love and care for the most is going to walk away. Patience is the key to solve such a problem. After a few days,weeks,months or even years sometimes! the person WILL realize your value.

5. No person is bad at heart. At some point of time or other, they are going to help you,comfort you and make you feel better.

6.Life is truly unpredictable. You never know what might happen next. Live for today. Express what you feel and celebrate!

No girl is hard to please..

"A woman's brain is the most complicated thing to understand."
I quote the lines from a magazine which i just flipped away when i was beckoned by a whilrwhind of thoughts! Before I knew it,I entered into a transitory phrase where I was dressed in white lace gown and my prince charming arrived on a white horse. He bends on his knees and puts his solitaire in my ring finger which is stretched out.The smile on my face refuses to just fade off. Rest what happened, isn't really important. But since then I'm thinking...Is it really hard to please a girl?

Well, from a guy's point of view.Yes

They get bugged when you forget birthdays and anniversaries.
They empty your pockets.
They get annoyed when you don't text back even if you are doing something important.
They don't let you spend much time with your friends.
For a small mistake you made, they don't talk for days.
They expect more you can give.
You are expected to sit and listen to them.
And the list goes on and on....

Now let me tell you the actual ways to please a girl

When she is annoyed with you and going away, hold her hand and don't let her go.
Make her feel important in front of your friends.
Sing a sweet romantic love song for her.
Gift her HANDMADE things. (probably a painting?)
Be more of a friend and less of a soul mate.
Look deep in her eyes when she shouts at you.
Compliment her infront of everybody.
Tell her how beautiful her smile is when she is upset...

Believe me, no girl is hard to please :)

The best way..

Whew! It's been two months since i stopped by and took a look at whats brewing on my blog! I would have made excuse exams but the truth is that i was caught up in useless gossips and fights that was draining positivity and energy out of me. And now its over ( not the fights, my emotions). Now I'm ready to restart my journey and do the things i truly love. So I came back to writing!

Sometimes you put yourself so much into a situation or perhaps a relationship and you get nothing out of it.
You enjoy those moments for a few moments and think for years where that all has disappeared. You try your best to resolve the problem. You try to cajole, talk, threaten,persuade. Because you see the things in your way, and they see it in their way.
One advice from my side,
just box it up and put it away for a few months. Give it time. The contents of the box should not affect you. Open it after a few months and you will be surprised to notice the new contents :)

Believe me sometimes it does work :)